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I saw a post on X which says "control your lust & you'll understand how boring 90% of women are." What do you think about it? Do you agree or disagree? Why?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 11:36

I saw a post on X which says "control your lust & you'll understand how boring 90% of women are." What do you think about it? Do you agree or disagree? Why?

Sturgeon’s Law (“ninety percent of everything is crap”) applies to people just as much as it applies to entertainment or anything else. You don’t need to shut off your lust to figure that out.

Okay, so. I have a reasonably active sex life. I am quite fond of lust, and tend to spend rather a lot of time on pursuits related to lust.

And I agree without reservation that the vast majority of people, men and women both, are actually pretty boring.

Ok, so this is a question seeking an answer to clear up whatever gymnastics are in my head. I'm a moderately attractive guy, sincere heart, genuinely looking to love another, established. Why don't women that I'm attracted to, want me back?

Throughout my life, I’ve declined more offers of sex than I’ve accepted. Someone needs to be pretty extraordinary for me to want to have sex with her.